Do You Think We Can’t See Them or What?
Stuff I hate July 27th, 2008
Girls, girls, girls. You may not realize this, but millions of women before you regarded this look as slobbish. I know this seems to be a trend right now, but it’s really not attractive. Not cute. Not flirty. Just makes you look like you can’t dress yourself.
If you’re going to wear a bra with straps that are thicker than the ones on the dress, for the love of God, at least match the color. And, by the way, I believe most men prefer a little mystery. This ain’t it.
And, yes, I did take a picture right there in the church. It was at a wedding, so everyone had cameras out. They were just pointing them at someone else wearing white.
Geez.
I suppose I should ask whether the men out there actually like this look. Do you find it alluring and sexy? Or do you think underwear belongs under there? Be honest.
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July 27th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
Ugh. I don’t think that’s the style anyway! lol At least I don’t remember any of the gals from Sex and the City with the granny heavy duty bra on under their spaghetti strap dresses. (Just typing spaghetti makes me hungry).
Anyway, no … that’s not pretty!
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July 27th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
I see this everywhere I go now. Seems to be the rule now, rather than the exception.
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July 27th, 2008 at 6:52 pm
1) Makes me just want to pull one back and snap it. *Thwack*
2) Your blog just flashed me with a pop-up add.
3) What’s up with the woman at the far right? Wild teal print with tie-back ribbon thing and SHORTS?.
4) Surprised the bride made it down the aisle with all the fashion train-wrecks going on.
5) No wonder you went home for a break before the reception.
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
I am always too dazzled by the Word of God to notice women in chuch. I was raised Catholic.
But finding shoes that match my purse can be a real pain in the keyster …
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:09 pm
Well, you were pointing your camera at something white, too. Big, ugly white BRA straps! God, does this woman not realize what a slob she looks like? It’s called UNDERwear for a reason.
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:20 pm
I am forever speechless(well maybe not speechless) at what people wear now, in the name of fashion! I think the word ‘fashion’ is used as an excuse to dress like a slob. It’s apparently now fashionable to wear colours together that offend the eye, for men to show their underwear and for women to not only show an ugly white bra, but to even wear a white bra under a black dress! …. Oh do shut up Babs!
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:22 pm
This is way more interesting than photos of the bride and groom. If you’re going to take pictures of people we’ve never met, it’s so considerate to find something we can all look at and shake our heads in disbelief and disgust.
Then again, “judge not, lest ye be judged.” (Just my Catholic guilt creeping in again.)
Kat
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
At a wedding? Really? Sad.
But to be honest, not cute anywhere. I am encountering this in that a lot of the maternity stuff out there is sleeveless/tank top style (or even quite thin straps) and I am paranoid about bra strap showing. If its even a close call, I only wear the top at home.
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July 27th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
DrowseyMonkey — Granny bra! Got that right. I could almost see if it was a camisole with thin straps, and BLACK. But to have that industrial strength bra hanging out. Oy!
Terry — I’m afraid it is. But if it’s a trend only, it means it’ll die like all bad trends do.
Geakz — I’d dare you to do that. In a church too. Sorry about the pop-up. I just wrote the BlogHer people to find out how to remove those. I know they’re annoying. As for shorts, I spotted a few people (mostly boys) wearing shorts in the church. Another trend?
LOBO — Me, too. Which is why something like this is so bothersome. This would never have been accepted “back in the day.” Don’t ya just hate shoe shopping?
JD at I Do Things — The thing that kills me is you can make out the adjusters on them. It’s not like it was the kind of bra made for hanging out, say, something from Victoria’s Secret. It’s a big, honking utilitarian bra. GAH!
Babs beetle — Oh, yeah. The guys. I love when they wear pants with the crotch at the knees, underwear showing and the only thing keeping them from being arrested is a belt that you hope and pray does its job. What I want to know is how do they walk like that?
Poetikat — It’s a service I do. Yeah, let’s say that. Oh, don’t even talk to me about Catholic guilt. We could go head-to-head on that and I would SO win.
Margaret — Great to see you again! I know what you mean about the tops not being made really for bra-wearing. Maybe it’s the fashion designers we should blame. Hope you are well! I have some catching up to do, don’t I?
July 27th, 2008 at 7:47 pm
Moving down on the bad fashion front, I hate when girls wear belly shirts when their bellies are freakin hanging out! Ewww. No one wants to see your extra skin bobbing about.
July 27th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Once a fashion trend starts, it doesn’t take long for the general population to turn it into a fashion train wreck! No I don’t find this attractive. If you are sitting immediately behind this person you will most likely find the hairy mole, random shoulder zit, bad tattoo, or other distraction that could have been solved by wearing sleeves!
Well, you asked for a man’s point of view…now you have it.
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July 27th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
Kathy, they walk like the girls did with the skin tight skirts of the mid sixties – in little pigeon steps, though I suspect the guys are walking with a prayer too ;O)
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July 27th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
Wow. What on earth was she thinking? Oh wait. She wasn’t.
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July 27th, 2008 at 9:23 pm
Where I live it seems to be thong underwear women like everyone to see.
What I find ridiculous are implants, especially on a woman over 40….looks like round balloons!!!
Kathy…she’s wearing white suspenders…..to keep a thong on no???
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July 27th, 2008 at 9:29 pm
Yeah, where did the days go when a friend would whisper “Psst, you’re bra is showing” and you would blush, and quickly tuck it back in out of view?
Oh, yeah. I am ancient, obviously and those days are long gone.
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July 27th, 2008 at 10:08 pm
Oh, mercy … most women today reveal too much, period. From pants so tight every bulge and crevice and line is showing, to tops that are not only unflattering but often downright lewd … and then the most unfortunate trend to wear the underwear in plain sight. There is great mystique in covering up the obvious. Fantastic post (and great pic) … I always wonder: doesn’t she own a MIRROR? Because I think if she knew how she looked, she’d have the grace to be embarrassed.
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July 27th, 2008 at 10:44 pm
Well, she could have at least worn a BLACK bra instead of white under black. yikes.
July 27th, 2008 at 11:38 pm
Funny, I just commented to my wife today about the color not to wear under white shorts. It seems that this young lady in front of me had on white shorts and a black thong.
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July 27th, 2008 at 11:45 pm
No, I don’t find this attractive at all for several reasons.
First of all, the thick bra straps showing screams “I’m White Trash!”
Second, I find white bras to be a turnoff all on their own, especially the plain, utilitarian kind that this woman is apparently wearing, judging from the thick straps.
Third, there was no need for straps to be showing at all, clashing or matching color. They do have those strapless bras for dresses like these, don’t they?
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July 27th, 2008 at 11:49 pm
Another point — the fact that the dress is a size too small for her isn’t helping her either, with the bulges up over the top of the dress near her armpits. Bleah. I’ve got nothing against chubby or fat women, but for cryin’ out loud, wear something that’s the right size.
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July 27th, 2008 at 11:54 pm
Too funny. I wondered where I had missed the fashion elite with this little faux pas. Good thing I’m not alone in missing that boat.
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:31 am
OMG…a TREND??
That looks like she left her sports bra on by mistake.
And I can’t believe she would wear that in the house of God!
Sacrilege.
tsk!
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:31 am
Ahhrrrgggghhhh! I have this urge to reach over and straighten them! I feel like Monk. Thanks for pointing this out…and further adding to my OCD…just a bit.
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mike
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:36 am
I have seen this a lot lately. It’s usually 2 tank tops with tiny strings and a bra strap… My question besides your is… Why do they were two tank tops… Am I missing the point of trying to be cool temperature wise… I mean really someone clue me in on this theory.
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July 28th, 2008 at 1:49 am
I’m with you on this one.
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July 28th, 2008 at 3:35 am
Personally i prefer a professional woman, A woman in a suit is sexy, and it definitely leaves a lot more to the imagination. It makes whats underneath more appealing as the clothing comes off.
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July 28th, 2008 at 3:40 am
No for me, but I’m not a guy here. I agree with you.
July 28th, 2008 at 4:41 am
ann of the shampooo bag — I’m amazed that heavier girls do that, too. I’m no one to talk about weight, but I don’t make people look at my jiggles. I’m so thoughtful.
DrillerAA — So glad to hear you feel this way. “random shoulder zit” Now there’s a visual! Ewww! The thing is, I think they want us to look at their bodies, imperfections and all. Glad they have such high self-esteem, but ugh, have mercy on us!
Babs beetle — You’d think at some point the discomfort of walking that way would outweigh the coolness factor. But I guess “cool” always trumps comfort.
Momo Fali — I’d hazard a guess she thought she looked hot. Amazing, huh?
Alan — Don’t get me started on the thong. Why, oh why, would you want a garment that gives you a constant wedgie? And cantaloupe boobs? Too much of a good thing.
Maureen — My thoughts exactly. There was a certain degree of mortification if your undergarments were showing. If someone told you your straps were out, you spent the rest of the day double and triple checking.
Jenny — I guess she felt if she didn’t mind them showing, other people wouldn’t. I think girls and teens have such high self-esteem now (a good thing), that they have no regard for modesty anymore (a bad thing). We need to find the middle again.
Danity Donnaly — Absolutely. Still would have looked sloppy, but not nearly as obvious. A thin-strapped black bra might have even looked OK with that outfit.
Rattln Along — My mother always told me “match the color of your skin when wearing white.” Anything else against white will show through. Black thong? Ewwww.
Libertine — I thought trashy, too. The dress was pretty, but the straps ruined it all. And, yeah, a sexier bra would have made all the difference. The bridesmaids in the wedding wore strapless dresses. They either wore strapless bras, or the dresses had enough lift built-in and so didn’t need any. And proper size makes all the difference. #1 rule!
Grandy — I still shake my head over it. You are clearly not alone. None of us here gets it, and thank God for that. I felt better reading all the comments. It means we’re not totally gone.
Ron — It’s all you’ll notice now. As for wearing that in a church, she might have even be better dressed than some. I see jeans and shorts a lot now. That was never, EVER allowed twenty years ago.
Mike Foster — I pitied the people sitting directly behind her. It’s probably all they could focus on. Yeah, that would have given Monk a coronary.
Callie — Yeah, I don’t get it either. I would feel all “bunched up” wearing two tanks underneath. The goal is supposed to be a smooth, comfortable look and feel. Again, “fashion” trumps comfort. I myself wore too-high heels to the wedding that I had no business wearing. But at least no one had to look at my toes.
goodncrazy — Glad I’m not alone. It gives me hope.
Dave — Exactly! That’s the way women of my age do it, and even when I was younger. You would never dream of exposing this much. It screamed “Want some?”
July 28th, 2008 at 5:11 am
I blame Carrie Bradshaw and that whole retarded bra strap look. Soooo tacky. Excellent pic.
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July 28th, 2008 at 5:48 am
What’s my comment? I can hear my late Mom now: OMG! what sluts! I think Mortified would be an understatement. Though My Dad would probably smile and shrug.
I have to attend an outdoor wedding in Boston on August 9th, and Tonight my wife is insisting I buy a new suit. we will be at Today’s man on Macarthur road. She hinted yesterday that she hoped to color coordinate it with the dress she purchased. God Help me! If you see me, shoot me. Please!
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July 28th, 2008 at 6:11 am
Oh My! That’s the problem of trying to fit into tiny clothes that do not suit somebody’s bodytype just so as to keep up with the fashionistas.
And has she never heard of strapless bras?
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July 28th, 2008 at 6:17 am
I have a friend who dresses like this a lot. Can’t tell her what you said…but I tend to agree. ONCE in a great while I let my straps show, but only when they match and it’s so hot out!
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July 28th, 2008 at 6:27 am
Don’t they make those things strapless?
If she want’s to look sexy, then she should at least try and make it appear that she isn’t wearing anything under the dress.
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July 28th, 2008 at 7:57 am
Ok, would someone like an opinion from a teen? Cause here you go:
I personally would have worn a shawl, shrug, or something similar. if that wasn’t an option, i would have worn a black bra at least! It’s just a strap, my MOM shows more than i do some times! you can see her whole bra through this one thin shirt she has and i tell her everytime that “you’re supposed to layer with that top, wear something over or under” and she says “well at least people know i have a bra on!”
so what do you think about that?!?
Many of my friends think the same way or (and this is my favorit quote from them) “I wouldn’t have worn a granny bra!” (refering to the hugely thick straps)
well that’s that. a teens P.O.V.
July 28th, 2008 at 7:57 am
sorry that’s many of my friends think the same way as ME
July 28th, 2008 at 8:08 am
eeeeuuuwwww, that’s so unattractive. If it isn’t girls and women wearing the wrong color bra with their outfit, then it’s women who wear bras that are the wrong size and their “stuff” is popping out the top over the bra so it looks like they have four boobs instead of two. Yuck!
Then of course there’s the girls/women who wear thongs with low cut jeans and their thong straps are showing. While it may not be as disgusting as seeing the Janitor-crack, it comes pretty close.
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July 28th, 2008 at 8:10 am
It annoys me to no end!!!!!! Thanks for being bold and calling a spade a spade!!!!
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July 28th, 2008 at 8:22 am
I’ve got to ask, when did it become appropriate to wear black at a wedding? Or shorts for that matter?
July 28th, 2008 at 8:43 am
I don’t get it either! If someone isn’t willing to buy a strapless bra, fine. Neither am I. But when I buy a dress, I make sure that it has wide straps, or a sleeve of some sort. Sometimes if I think that there is a chance for it to show, I wear a little cardigan over it. Problem solved.
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:08 am
Ok that bra is WAY to ‘granny-ish’ to be showing off! And then it’s white under a black dress?!?!?! OMG! And yeah,the woman in shorts?! WTF??? I can see boys wearing them but women…to a wedding?!?!?!
Ok I have nothing new to say so I will quietly step out…another great post Kathy! lol ;P
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:15 am
I once went to a wedding that was attended by a couple in their best outfits. Unfortunately those outfits were for competitive square dancing. He had on a jacket with sequined lapels and a string tie with a matching cowboy hat and boots, and she was wearing crinolines and a neckerchief that coordinated. No, they weren’t on their way to a competition. No, this wasn’t in Texas (actually it was in Ephrata, PA), and no, they didn’t dance at the reception. They just came with the weirdness. It was awesome.
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:17 am
Kathy, I totally agree – wear a bra with at least the same matching colour as your dress/top…at least it will blend in, rather than stand out like a sore thumb!
This is totally unattractive and it’s like, didn’t you look in the mirror before you left home? Come on, especially for a wedding, it’s a special occasion…make a little effort!
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:30 am
A few years ago, girls here were wearing high-rise panties and low-rise jeans. Yes, it does look like they don’t know how to dress themselves. There’s colour clashing and then there’s “Ohmigod! Underwear should not be seen!” common sense.
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:41 am
No– that girl isn’t styling– that is some too-white 18 hour bra working its way into its 10th hour.
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:46 am
Well, I’m a man who doesn’t like that look one bit.
But, I’m a bit biased — I’ve got a daughter and there’s no way I’d let her out of the house with her bra showing (well, when she gets old enough to wear a bra, at least).
And, as someone has already mentioned, I’m often tempted to “pop” one of those straps when I see that.
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July 28th, 2008 at 10:04 am
In the 80s we would go braless if we didn’t have a strapless bra to wear on such occasions. I’m pretty sure that the men really enjoyed that more, anyhow. Every time I see a woman wearing something like this, I just cringe. Even when it’s not a dress, and just their tank top with such narrow straps. It’s nasty girls, stop doing it!
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July 28th, 2008 at 10:10 am
As a man, and one who loves women at that, I can give you an unqualified uh-uh. It’s not about weight or trashiness or even the utilitarian bra, it just looks slovenly. Unfortunately, it’s a look I’ve seen so often lately that I doubt I’d even notice at all.
Here’s my idea of sexy: a quick flash of a lacy black bra strap as a woman you’d thought of as all-business stretches. Sex appeal is a game of mystery and hints, not screaming in public. That’s one guy’s opinion, anyway.
Then again, who hasn’t been rushing to get ready for an event, only to discover that the only clean, presentable clothes they have don’t match? I’m not defending her, but there’s always the chance that she was just as horrified as the shooter. I’m just sayin’…
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July 28th, 2008 at 10:14 am
actually, i’m glad that it’s no longer taboo to see an occasional bra strap, but i agree…at least make them match the top you’re wearing.
funny post.
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July 28th, 2008 at 10:21 am
THANK YOU!
Now hopefully the right people will read this and stop doing it!
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July 28th, 2008 at 11:09 am
Pretty bad – she’s seen it done, she just forgot some of the more important details – such as no white bras allowed!! I saw something funny at the rodeo last weekend: a red bra under a gray tube top….oh my!
July 28th, 2008 at 12:04 pm
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for FINALLY pointing this out to women. It has been bugging me for years. It is the female version of the gang bangers wearing ther pants down around their knees. It just looks ’stupid’ and reinforces the idea that women cannot dress themselves. I have always thought that this is just the precursor of women just walking around in bras with nothing else on. A foot in the door sort of thing.
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:18 pm
Alice — Agreed. Some of that stuff they’d make her wear was God-awful. Even on a stick-thin body like hers. Straps hanging out are unattractive on any body.
Chris — OMG. Insist that you don’t match anything. Tell her the only thing you’ll agree to color-coordinate is your tie. That is, if you don’t hang yourself with it first. May the force be with you.
Shiko-Msa — I’m starting to wonder if she thought that a strapless bra would have been too annoying, as they can fall down if not fitted properly. The solution to that would have been to go braless. The dress looked pretty sturdy up front. She’d have been fine without.
Lauren — Yep. There’s a time and a place for the look, and this was neither. I can see the heat being a factor, but there was no excuse for the white bra.
Bucky — Yes, and agreed. The straps on the dress looked pretty supportive. She could probably have gone without a bra.
Sarah — Yes! Really wanted a teen’s viewpoint. Thank you for chiming in. I love the conversation with your mom. Gave me a chuckle. Glad to know the granny bra look is not “in” at the moment. Please pray it doesn’t somehow take off. I never thought the pants-worn-to-the-crotch look would have gone on this long.
Lin Burress — The 4-boob look is atrocious. I think I remember Oprah having a whole show dedicated to getting rid of the 6 boob look (two you were given, two spilling out over top, and two in the back where boobs don’t go). The thong strap thing is worse than the bra thing. Mercifully, I don’t see that as often.
KFJ — It may be bold. It may be stupid. For all I know, there’s a woman outside work in a black outfit and white bra waiting to beat me up.
Singular Girl — I give her credit for not wearing a white dress with a black bra. Could have been worse. Priests at the church I went to as a child would have thrown out anyone wearing shorts and publicly ridiculed them. Now, I guess anything goes. Sad.
StephanieC — See, now there you go making sense. How dare you.
Lori — I don’t remember seeing the woman in shorts. Maybe they were skorts. Remember those? Or really short capris. I’d defend her more than I defend Granny Bra Woman.
Shieldmaiden96 — As is your comment. OMG, I laughed so hard. “They just came with the weirdness.” Love it.
Marie — I wonder if anyone was bold enough to walk up to her and say “Your bra straps are showing.” I could see maybe if you’re wearing that in a night club or something. But to have others staring at your back for two hours in the church, and then another 4 hours at the reception. So weird. The more I look at it, the more I can’t believe she left the house like that.
Jamie — Yeah, where did common sense go? I’m always so embarrassed for girls who wear that kind of underwear. It says “I’m easy.” No girl needs to broadcast that kind of message.
Jenn Thorson — I keep going back to “If only it weren’t white!” She could have gotten away with it.
Ethan Nobles — Bless your heart and a big “thank you” from all of us. One less “out there” daughter in the world. So funny about the snapping thing. I’m laughing at the image of about half a dozen people snapping her straps all at once.
July 28th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I don’t think this is really the fashion, but even if it is, NOT APPEALING or sexy in the least. I hate if my bra strap shows and there’s a few tops I have with scoop necks that I contantly have to keep pulling at to make sure they don’t slip over too far. In fact, although they are quite pretty, I seldom wear them just for that reason.
To me this is almost as bad as the baggy pant look that shows almost half of a guy’s underpants. Now that I really hate to see!
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:46 pm
I am so glad someone said that thought out loud. Now,.. could you do something about those pants that the waistband comes down to their knees and their underwear sticks way out of??? lol..
Have a great week.
Pam
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July 28th, 2008 at 12:48 pm
I’m with you on this one. Ladies nowadays are short on lady-likeness for the most part. This is just one such trend, the underwear showing.
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July 28th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
I am SO with you on this!! It isn’t sexy, and it isn’t smart and it doesn’t make you look bold or brave or clever or anything remotely positive. It looks trashy and slovenly.
I’m not quite so paranoid about my straps showing as I used to be, but if I think there’s the faintest chance of them doing so, I wear a matching bra, or one with ‘tank top’ type straps – ie, plain soft fabric (non-elastic) straps with no buckle adjuster. I have a couple of lightweight soft camisole type bras with very plain ‘tank top’ straps which don’t look out of place layered under looser tops with thin straps, because actually, they don’t look like bras at all. Other than that it’s strapless or bra-less. And I can tell you which my husband prefers! I wouldn’t be seen dead in public dressed like the woman in the picture.
The other trend which bugs me is the one for letting high knickers showing above low cut jeans. These things look kind of semi-okay on young, fit women with no spare flesh – provided they don’t mind looking cheap – but on anyone with love handles … oh, good grief! Get a grip, people!
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July 28th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
I have a 15 yr old daughter, and the layered look is in. But, it’s a tank, a cami, and a color co-ordinated bra that makes the ensemble. You can’t tell which strap is which, and it goes together. Still not spaghetti straps though. She wouldn’t be caught dead looking like this. This girl matched her purse to her dress, why couldn’t she take the effort to get a better bra?
On the other side, I saw a young woman recently in a cute yellow sundress, with just a hint of black lace showing from her bra, black purse and strappy sandals. She didn’t show an inch of skin she shouldn’t, but she was smoking the pavement as she went by. So sometimes it works to show a bit of lace.
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July 28th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
Oh, and to Sarah – I haven’t bough a white shirt for years because I can’t find one that doesn’t show my bra through it. What happened to decent quality white cotton? I’m sure they never used to be like that. Anyway, to me, it feels the same as showing bra straps on purpose.
I’m not judging your Mum, just saying what my personal opinion is. I can’t see what she’s wearing and it might look great on her, but on me it would look tacky. And ugly. But then I’m overweight, which doesn’t help. LOL!
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July 28th, 2008 at 1:32 pm
I might be alone in this…
My thought: “Bet that’s holdin’ back a couple of whoppers”
… i’ll get my coat, shall I?
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July 28th, 2008 at 3:02 pm
Oh my gosh I think that’s me!
As a senior in high school and a freshman in college and …well, last week when I had no style.
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July 28th, 2008 at 4:36 pm
Maybe she only owns white granny bras, and can’t afford to buy a black one because she’s poor. She needs a sugar daddy. Do you have her number?
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July 28th, 2008 at 4:46 pm
Hawksdomain — I’m pretty sure the men prefer braless in any decade. What they should buy are really supportive tanks, if there are such things and go without the bra. If you’re young enough, you don’t need as much support anyway.
Bill Womack — I agree with your idea of sexy. A bit of mystery is always more exciting. This just says “Here ya go. Have at it.” Yes, she might have been in a rush, but trust me, a woman at least should know enough to grab the black bra. This white thing is inexcusable.
leigh — Yep. Matching it to black would have done this gal a world of good.
Monique — Doubtful, but at least we can feel better knowing everyone here is bothered by this to some degree. That’s some relief.
Stephanie — Maybe she thinks she starting a new trend: If I can’t see my straps, nobody else can! My guess is the red bra wearer wanted everyone to notice. You did, right? See, it’s all in the plan.
Bruce — I want to know if their parents are bothered by this. Maybe they feel since it’s the trend, they can’t do anything about it. I’m not a parent, but I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t let my daughter out like that or my son with his pants down around his knees. Bizarre. Make it stop!
Karen, author of “My Funny Dad, Harry” — I have a couple tops like that, too. I’m careful where I wear them, if I know I have to constantly check the straps. The saggy, baggy pants thing is worse, I agree. I often stare at the boys who do it and one day I’m going to flat out ask “You hate that look, deep down, don’t you?”
GaFarmWomanPam — Oh, if only. There’s a middle school near where I work. I often see boys milling about outside in the morning with their pants hanging down like that. I pray the teachers make them pull them up once class starts. I’m for school uniforms, and not because I went to catholic school. But because all the kids would look similar and decently-dressed. Dress like that at home. In school, look like a human.
Milena — I love watching old movies where the women dressed up every day, covered most everything, and still looked like knock-outs. You’re right. What’s wrong with looking like a lady?
Jay — Agreed. For all the model shows on TV, you would think the girls would at least see what’s stylish. What gives? What you describe is the proper way to do it if you’re gonna go that route. Whatever you wear underneath can’t be a big ‘ol white boulder holder. They need to be, like you said, not really bras at all. And, yeah, a chunky girl cannot let her stuff hang out over the panties. They call those muffin tops, right? Ugh.
Shadowsrider — It’s a look that requires a lot of care. One wrong move, and you have this. And, yes, if you do it just right, the men go wild. A hint of lacy bra is perfect. A big ‘ol honking adjustable bra strap? Not so much.
Jay (again) — I think I mentioned before my mom always taught me to match the bra color to your skin color if you’re wearing white. If you’re darker, go with taupe. That way, the only thing you worry about is bumps from the adjusters. It’s hard finding a good quality “T” that won’t show all the contours of the bra. Being overweight myself, you have to go for clothing with more structure. It’s a pain to find things that aren’t too thin. We’re not all size 4, are we?
ken armstrong — She did indeed have whoppers, but honestly, I think she could have done without a bra. The dress looked well structured and gave good lift in the front. Plus, with it being black, it was forgiving in terms of no “see through.”
Lisa — That’s the very age a girl can get away with this, I think. You really need to have boobs that hold themselves up. Hey, at least if you and I have no style, we still know to hide our straps, right?!
Joe — Sorry, Joe. Can’t help you there. I know, it’s killing you.
July 28th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
Huh, that’s exactly how I dressed a few weeks ago at a party I went to. But I totally pulled it off.
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July 28th, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Someone further up mentioned “plumber’s crack” and I thought I would let you know that the female equivalent to that is called the “coin slot”. Too many bra straps and too many coin slots are showing nowadays. Have a little modesty! (wow-I sound like a fuddy-duddy, but I swear, I’m not!)
July 28th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
I think it’s weird. And kindof ugly. I hate when people act like no one else can see them, or they’re the only ones there.
And I think it makes it look like you can’t take the time to make youself look nice.
July 28th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
I’ve been trying for several hours now to think of something kind to say. It didn’t happen. HOLY CRAP…this girl needs to go back and ask her mom to help her get dressed before going out in public. And tell sister Ann of the Shampoo Bag she really didn’t need to go there.
July 28th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
Well, I suppose it’s the female version of the droopy drawers the boys seem to like. What I find amusing is that the girls think the guys are stupid for wearing their pants that way. I have two teenage daughters and yes, they do show bra straps, but as mentioned above, it’s the layered, color-coordinated look and doesn’t scream “White granny bra!”
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July 28th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
Ha ha, you can be mean…. In everyday life I would say… who cares but for a wedding (if I was wearing a bra, unlikely for a few more years!!!), then I would make the effort to hide the straps a little more or wear a strapless bra.
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July 28th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
okay i do that because i have bigger boobs and i cant where cami without a bra so i have too but i try to hide them
July 28th, 2008 at 9:18 pm
Black bra under black clothes, white or flesh colour under lighter clothes. I always made sure my dress straps were wider than my bra straps. It’s not hard to do.
I did show plenty of leg in the days of the mini skirt, but never underwear!
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July 28th, 2008 at 9:53 pm
Thank you for a good laugh. I have to admit, I’m on the fence with this issue because I don’t mind this as much if the straps match or are thinner (or equally as thin) as the actual garment. However this is UNACCEPTABLE and TACKY! Poor thing. Doesn’t she have a friend to tell her this isn’t cute? I sure would hope one of my friends or family member would never let me go out like that.
July 28th, 2008 at 10:28 pm
Wow! Underwear brings out the comments! Alright!
Nope. Don’t like it. It’s like she didn’t think, or care about what she was wearing. Maybe it’s the only bra that was clean. Just plain lazy, and a turn off.
Not that I dislike the exposed underwear thing altogether, though. It can be done sexy. But it has to be subtle and tasteful. Other times it should be hiding in wait, like my tiger print thong.
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July 28th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
all I can say (as I’m sure everyone before me has said it) is *thank you*!!
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July 28th, 2008 at 11:58 pm
I actually don’t think she was trying to be sexy (someone above mentioned a granny bra). It seems she doesn’t care what she looks like. I’m not one of those women that spends hours on hair and make-up and can’t go out of the house unless she looks like she’s going to be in a fashion show, I always look “together” (this poor girl looks like everything is falling apart).
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July 29th, 2008 at 12:12 am
Bra less Omigosh no way! If we have to choose, let’s have the industrial granny straps. See this topic has touched a lot of people’s nerves. They’ve brought on the comments.
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July 29th, 2008 at 12:48 am
OMG! Thank you. I think if you are going to the park, and in a tank top that’s fine. But Church??????? Seriously. This is not appropriate in any way. This is why I love the clear bra straps….you can’t see them at all, unless you are really close, and who needs to be that close?
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July 29th, 2008 at 3:56 am
Jeff — I’ve no doubt. When I think Jeff, I think fashion plate.
mlm — I’ve heard that term before and it makes me laugh when I see it. Funny, but ewwww.
Regan — Agreed. Now promise your mother you won’t dress like that!
Lee — I think it’s all been said. Join the club. We hate it.
Anna — I guess there’s a double standard here. But at least the girls can actually walk in their style of choice.
Forest — It’s good to know we can count on you to cover your straps. Hey, do you have a new blog I haven’t seen before? I like it!
brooke — Good for you! Just remember: No granny bra!
Babs beetle — Just as long as you didn’t go the Britney Spears look, if you know what I mean.
Lisa Irby — There’s such a fine line between this look being acceptable and not. Yeah, wish someone would have helped her out. Again, I wonder what the people in the pew behind her were thinking. Hard to look away.
Ferd — No kidding. It was hard to keep up with them yesterday. It really spawned a lot of feedback. Now, about that tiger print thong… we need to talk.
Judi — I doubt this will help any, but at least we know some people still think modesty is the best policy.
Marelisa — Probably not. On one hand, I give her credit for being comfortable with herself, but this is a tad too comfortable.
Shiko-Msa — Braless works if the dress has enough lift, which this one might have had. Can’t have them flapping around. Industrial strength straps would have worked if the bra had been black, but just barely. Yea, the comments went through the roof on this one.
Mandi — You reminded me that I spotted a teenaged girl at the reception wearing those clear straps. Still noticeable, but not nearly as much and it’s obvious she took care to conceal them.
July 29th, 2008 at 4:42 am
Ha ha ha ha! I didn’t word that too well eh? ;O)
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July 29th, 2008 at 4:48 am
That looked absolutely horrible! Although you didn’t show the front side of her, I’d be willing to bet that she’d have been better off not wearing a bra at all!! – Nards
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July 29th, 2008 at 5:36 am
this poor woman doesn’t have any friends to tell her the truth.
no mirrors either.
and common sense seems to be lacking too.
maybe she doesn’t have a clue.
or a strapless bra.
the list goes on and on.
maybe she doesn’t care.
she assumed all eyes would be on the bride?
her black bra is at the cleaners?
she took the church slogan: come as you are, literally.
not sexy.
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July 29th, 2008 at 5:47 am
Not sure what kind of message she is trying to send, either. Just doesn’t really accentuate anything but the bra. But maybe she was pimping for Playtex at the wedding.
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July 29th, 2008 at 5:49 am
wow-so many had an opinion on this – Here is what I think, this is a young girl who has seen this look and tries to copy it but she doesn’t really know how to do it. She needs her mom or big sis to jump in and save her. I think everyone can probably remember a time they tried to wear something that was a little bit out there.
Or
she could be on vacation at the beach and decided to go to church. Maybe this is the only decent outfit she had and she didn’t want to go without a bra on. At least she’s in church, she could be dressed like this drinking and hooking up at a bar.
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July 29th, 2008 at 8:21 am
I have always thought that even when women wear a transparent bra strap it looks awful. There are some pretty good strapless bras out there – surely they come in all sizes!
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July 29th, 2008 at 9:11 am
It’s tacky to have bra strap showing.
July 29th, 2008 at 10:02 am
Couldn’t agree more!
And while we’re at it, when did showing your overflowing mid-riff become okay? For God sakes, if your middle hangs over your belt, tuck in your shirt–or at least wear a shirt that is long enough!
Thanks for letting me vent!
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July 29th, 2008 at 11:51 am
Please do not even get me started on fashion faux paus. Not only do I live in New York where you see everything good or bad, but I work at a fashion school! Sometimes I want to pass out fashion tickets! Today I saw a woman wear floral pants with a polka-dot top! And that was on my way to the subway to work.
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July 29th, 2008 at 12:51 pm
I was wondering why everyone was facing right lol
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July 29th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
To be fair, have you tried finding a shirt that does NOT have spaghetti straps? I’m 46 and when I shop I feel like every item in the store was designed for Victoria Beckham. Whose style I loathe by the way.
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July 29th, 2008 at 4:36 pm
It don’t bother me – I guess they are wearing the bra for comfort and the dress/top because it’s summer and they want a bit of sun on their shoulders. Yeah they could try to match the colour but my guess is that must of their bras are white.
Sorry if this sounds reasonable – I try not to be normally:)
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July 29th, 2008 at 6:02 pm
Babs beetle — You worded it just fine. Brittney screwed up!
Nards — I remember catching a glimpse of the front of the dress. It looked pretty sturdy to me. She could have safely left the bra at home.
Natural — That’s a whole lot of reasons! I say she probably didn’t care, but I like to think she thought all eyes would be on the bride. That’s a nice way to look at it!
Henson Ray — Yea, it’s like BOING! BRA! It does look like Playtex, doesn’t it?
Sheila Sultani — Yes, I’m surprised at the number of comments here. We all seem to be in agreement. Perhaps if she’d been at a party, it wouldn’t have seemed so bad. Unfortunate time and place.
Turn One Pound Into One Million — Yes, the transparent ones are a little odd. The straps look like scotch tape, but at least they’re not so obvious. A strapless bra would have done wonders for her.
My Bug Life — Very tacky and eye-roll inducing.
etta — I think girls of any size think it’s OK to show the midriff for some reason. In “my day” we would be as mortified to show flab as we would to show bra straps. Even when I was thinner, the midriff wasn’t really an option. Modesty is key.
Tiffany — Thanks for a thought from the fashion capital of the world! Maybe no one really cares what they look like anymore. Sign of individually gone horribly wrong?
Sugee — Yea, we were watching for the bride, but first we got an eyeful of the flower girl having a meltdown. What a sight that was! She barely made it to the alter (someone had to finally carry her down and deposit her in a pew.)
Stacey — I have exactly the same problem. I swear, there are no shops for women our age. Somebody help me! The looks get increasingly younger as I get older!
tfa — That’s OK, you can be reasonable. But every woman has more than one color bra — guaranteed. I bet by now, if you read all the comments, you know everything you want to know about the wearing of bras, and stuff you didn’t, eh?
July 29th, 2008 at 9:52 pm
It definitely is not a good look! I have seen younger girls do this, seemingly on purpose, as though it is some kind of fashion statement – don’t quite get it myself!
It does seem logical to try and match, rather than drawing attention to your bra.
One thing with spaghetti straps, when you have a larger bust it can be hard to find bras with nice, thin straps. That can be frustrating.
July 30th, 2008 at 4:58 am
Erin — It’s definitely a “look” these days, but I agree, very hard to find thin enough straps for some of the tinier tops. So it’s either go braless if you can get away with it, or choose another top. Anything but this.
July 30th, 2008 at 9:25 am
lol…I had to laugh at this. I used to get upset at my much younger sister-in-law for always doing the same thing. I remember when (can’t remember the name) I was a teen, a magazine had those do’s and don’t’s of dressing, where they’d place the big black bar over the eyes of the “don’t” girl…and showing bra straps was a big DON’T. As a Pavlovian result, I’ve never been able to do that.
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July 30th, 2008 at 10:20 am
Oh I don’t need advice on wearing bras:)
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July 30th, 2008 at 5:49 pm
Of course, there is always the strapless option too!
July 30th, 2008 at 6:25 pm
lala — Funny! I never want to be a “Don’t Girl”. I thought it was safe enough to post this picture because there’s no way to identify her. You know who I feel bad for? Those people on TV who are shown from the neck down only in stories about obesity. I would die if I ever got filmed for something like that.
tfa — I knew it!
Erin — I can’t remember the last time I needed a strapless bra. Really have to get a supportive one, though. Or go without, I say.
July 30th, 2008 at 6:58 pm
Ha! Yes, so tacky, especially the big old white lacey straps with black dress. The only thing that lights my fuse faster is the boxers hanging out with belt slung around the guys cheeks. Not a wise fashion choice.
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July 31st, 2008 at 8:46 am
Thank you , Thank you, Thank you for bringing this new plight to light. I think if enough people see this they will start to ponder the recent devolvement of bra sightings. We used to only see the elusive bra strap by mistake or if someone was lucky. It held the same mystery as Bigfoot. Now it appears way too often and in many unflattering situations for the wearer. Again I thank you for bringing it to attention in hopes it will go in hiding again.
July 31st, 2008 at 10:08 am
maybe if the bra had of been black? it wouldn’t have looked so bad…sigh–cool post–submitted it to Entreview…more traffic coming your way!!
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July 31st, 2008 at 10:43 am
I couldn’t agree more… It’s so trashy, and not to mention, white trash… ugh… it’s always on non-attractive girls too… ever noticed that?
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July 31st, 2008 at 12:05 pm
Vivienne — Same here. I want to scream “You can’t be comfortable with your pants down around your knees!” I guess we should be happy they at least wear the boxers, huh?
Heather — Thanks for the visit. You are not alone here. We all think it’s a ridiculous look. I don’t know what we can do about it except maybe give these girls really obvious eye rolls. There will always be trends. Let’s hope this one dies soon.
TeasasTips — Yes, she’d probably have been OK enough with a black bra. Though I still have issues if the strap is wider than the dress strap. Looks sloppy. Thanks for submitting this to Entreview. Always appreciate extra visitors.
Tracie — I think these girls have convinced themselves the look is attractive. You could tell them it wasn’t until the cows came home and you’d be wasting your breath. I only hope, with time, it goes away and we can all look back on it later and say “Remember when….?”
July 31st, 2008 at 3:22 pm
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August 1st, 2008 at 6:54 pm
I have it on good authority that men think WTFrell? about bra straps showing. As I was reading your post, I said something about it out loud to my husband who is stilling next to my in the computer room saving the universe from globby monsters at his computer. He said he doesn’t get it either.
Happy Birthday to your blog!
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August 1st, 2008 at 7:40 pm
tfa — So is it the manziere or the bro? (Seinfeld reference for those not in the know). I’ll always feel comfortable around you, should my straps be hangin’ out!
Condo Blues — I don’t know. I should go back and do a stats check to see who among us (men or women) hate this look more. I’m pretty sure men don’t mind seeing anything boob-related, yes? Thanks for the birthday wishes! It was great.
August 3rd, 2008 at 6:23 am
It is just plain foolish thing to do and no man can be impressed or seduced by this. There are lot more things to focus and to find in a woman rather than that nasty white bras.
August 3rd, 2008 at 4:58 pm
All I can say is priceless, just priceless! lol
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August 3rd, 2008 at 5:18 pm
Schuppen — Absolutely! And guess what I saw on MTV today? A young girl wearing a long-sleeved shirt with her BRA worn on the outside of it. And there were signatures written on the cups. No, we didn’t get an eyeful of skin, but I still don’t want to see the bra. Looked like hell.
DJ — And so was the look on my face when I spotted her.
August 5th, 2008 at 2:30 am
Kathy, I am using my imagination to draw a picture of that, You know, I ended up with a very odd feeling. Yet on another blog I was reading something similar like that. Some of women expressed that they show some skin intentionally and some of them were totally disagreed with that. Cleavage is something which can seduce men but how that cab be possible without a nice bra but indeed I am not in the favor to show bra.
August 5th, 2008 at 7:47 pm
That is so funny. Love that you took the picture.
August 6th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
adhs — It’s funny. The week I wrote this, I saw a couple of other posts about stuff like this. I think the consensus is that what’s underneath is best left to the imagination.
Lisa@blessedwithgrace — I couldn’t NOT take that picture! She was just askin’ for it!
August 7th, 2008 at 7:38 am
That’s my pet peave too. It just doesn’t look nice.
August 11th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
At least if it was her slip (does anyone wear those anymore?) she could say she didn’t have a full-length mirror (sad, but possible). Her bra straps? Seriously. I cannot think of a single good excuse to use for that.
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August 20th, 2008 at 6:12 pm
Data Entry — I think they’re just running out of new fashion trends to try. This one will never be acceptable.
Becki — Me neither. Funny about the slip. I can’t remember the last time I wore a full one.
March 6th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Ok, let’s face it, women should have different bras for different clothes. That lady should have used a strapless bra and it would have looked great!
May 21st, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Everyone wears and does things that in hind sight they realize were mistakes. Have you ever regreted a clothing
choice or hairstyle only to find a framed photo of it on
a family member’s mantle? You cringe and hope nobody
bothers to look. Well, this girl has had her mistake posted on the internet for 114 people plus to laugh about.
We may not be able to identify her, but I bet she could identify herself. She may type in something about bra fitting or shopping and then run across this mortification.
May 21st, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Aireandale — Yes, strapless would have done the trick. They make them so supportive now, too.
misspiggytoes — Well, I’d never in a million years post someone’s face online who didn’t want to be posted (though people have done that to me and others on Facebook and elsewhere). Sure, I’ve made mistakes. I post them here all the time. If the gal in this photo discovered the photo, I’d be happy to blur out her head and dress, leaving only the straps, which are completely unidentifiable.
May 21st, 2009 at 5:15 pm
I guess she reminds me of myself at that age, trying to
be dainty, but going about it the wrong way.
May 21st, 2009 at 5:20 pm
misspiggytoes — I went my entire grade school, and I’ve venture to say most of high school, “going about it the wrong way.” I’m able to laugh about it now. I don’t even consider the bra strap thing as horrible a violation as how I tried wearing my naturally curly hair. It was sinful.
May 21st, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I’m brand new to the internet world and discovered your blog when keywording about cats. I guess I am now a blog follower and a comment maker. I will keep reading the archives and checking out the new stuff. The junk drawer
is very relatable and human. It sure does bring in the comments!
May 23rd, 2009 at 2:49 pm
misspiggytoes — I’m loving that you’re commenting on a lot of my old stuff. It’s refreshing! So you have cats then?
June 21st, 2009 at 5:09 pm
im 13 and totally obsessed with fashion and i NO thats not a trend. yesterday at subway there were theses college girls in front of me and one of them was wearing a shirt with like no back and u could see all of the back of her bra. its one thing to see the straps but seeing the whole back of the bra? thats gone WAY too far!
June 21st, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Corrina — Glad to hear someone from your generation doesn’t think much of this look either. I think we can blame Madonna for that whole “showing the entire bra” thing. Shall we?
July 28th, 2009 at 9:32 am
I am quite relaxed about ladies showing their bra straps – they obviously cannot help it any more than when I need to remove my jacket in public and reveal my braces. Better to be comfortable than fashionable. Gee, I must be getting old – only 23, so just kidding!
August 29th, 2009 at 11:49 am
You lot are either women or very sad men.
Bras showing if so sexy. keep on showing them ladies and dont listen to theses low life idiots. they havent got a clue. Kathy you have seen very few dicks i can tell!